The
holidays are a great time - so we think.
The truth is, most people who do the lion’s share of getting ready for
the holidays are frequently overwhelmed with the volume of work that is required
to get it all done. The regular
schedule of day-to-day responsibilities is magnified with the endless list of
extras.
We
are also overwhelmed with the concept of the neediness of so many people.
Someone's child is sick, someone's relative is dying or has died, it is the
anniversary of a death for another person. The homeless shelter needs
volunteers, your church is doing charity work and your office has adopted a family
to give to at Christmas. Some people are irritable and angry in November and
December and we dread living through this time with them. So with all that
comes up in this window of time, we quietly ask ourselves: Is it really worth
it? Is it really worth the volume of energy to get ready for Christmas or
Hanukkah?
The
answer is more complicated than we think. The answer may center on our concepts
of service. What is service?
Service
is frequently giving money, time or effort to someone in need. It is the giving
of ourselves. This is easy to recognize.
However,
there are other types of service that we would be wise to honor, namely the
service of getting any type of celebration together. It isn't just this time of
year; it can be any time of the year.
The
neighbor who decorates for Halloween, the mom who never misses making the
favorite birthday cake, the welcome home celebration for a service member, the
delight of a Valentine's dinner or a 4th of July cookout. The Thanksgiving
Dinner with a cast of thousands is a tremendous service as well. Few people
appreciate the volume of planning that goes into feeding all those people, plus
the decorations that accompany the food, the candles, the greens and the
creative effort all create the atmosphere for any celebration. All these things
are service - these creative efforts of love made visible are also spiritual
service. This takes us to December. Part II will help us make some sense out of
this challenging month.
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